Saturday, December 11, 2010

**JP** Drown attack fears in Pakistani Pashtoon, who is responsible for this.....?

 

**JP** culprit of Jinnah Hospital Nurse case relase....?

 

Was Google Bankrolled By The CIA?

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**JP** Obama's Afghanistan visit: US winning or losing?

Obama was in Afghanistan just a week ago to boost the morale of US troops. Is it so down? It should be down actually because the Afghan conditions have proved to be far more difficult than they expected. Some 0.6 million Afghan people have died in this war and the US army head count is around 7400. If you are interested in more facts then read this column:

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can anyone help me to answer this question.
Why do heels crack in winters?
 
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**JP** Fw: Islamic Tarbiyyah of Children / Aulad ki Tarbiyat


 


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Subject: Islamic Tarbiyyah of Children / Aulad ki Tarbiyat


 



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Islamic Tarbiyyah of Children


Abdul Wahid Hamid
from Islam: The Natural Way
 


In the tarbiyyah of children, you should remember that children often learn from example. The proper conduct and example of parents are crucial in the upbringing of children.

Parents who expect their children to be disciplined and to work hard must must themselves be disciplined and work hard. Parents who expect their children to be truthful must not be in the habit of telling liew.

Also, it is important to remember that the treatment given to children in the early years of their life can have far-reaching effects on their mental and emotional state later on in life.



In the tarbiyyah of children, you should try to remember that:

~  Children should be happy and cheerful. And have a zest for life and living. They should be able to feel something of the carefree joy and excitement of growing up, especially before they are mukallaf. They should not be battered and terrorised.
~  They should be trained to grow up with the attitudes and habits, the adab or etiquette of Islam:
"Be generous, kind and noble to your children and make their habits and manners good and beautiful (Akrimuu awlaadakum was ahsinuu adabahum),"
said the noble Prophet (salAllahu alayhi wasalam).



Among the virtues and habits they should develop are:

->   the habit of being honest and truthful;
->   the habit of being gentle and polite – for according to the noble Prophet (salAllahu alayhi wasalam), "Gentleness adorns everything" – without being timid, afraid and cowed down;
->   the habit of being helpful and considerate without being loutish in their behaviour to others;
->   the habit of being clean and neat and tidy, of looking after their personal hygiene and appearance.


Children need to develop the adab or the etiquette of Islam: when and how to greet; how to speak, sit, eat, and how to perform natural functions like personal toilet in the clean and efficient manner as taught by the beloved Prophet (salAllahu alayhi wasalam); to do everything in the manner, time and place that is appropriate for it, for example: to be reverent in salat, attentive in class, robust and full of zeal in play.


Children need to develop physical fitness and skills, to be strong and courageous. The Prophet (salAllahu alayhi wasalam) recommended that children be taught horse-riding, swimming and archery.

One Muslim ruler once suggested that his child be taught swimming before reading or writing on the grounds that someone else may read and write for him but no one can swim for him!


From the noble Prophet (salAllahu alayhi wasalam)'s recommendations, we see that children need to lead an active outdoor life and be proficient in some of the martial arts. They should have the stamina for demanding play and demanding work. This implies at least that they should be adequately fed.



Children need to develop a thirst for knowledge, beneficial knowledge – through listening, observation, reading, interacting with others. It is recommended that children be taught from an early age to recite and read the Qur'an and develop a love for it. At an early age, they have the capacity to memorise it and it is common for many children and youths to memorise the whole or large parts of the Qur'an.
From the age of seven, the Prophet (salAllahu alayhi wasalam) recommended that children should get in the habit of performing salat and by the age of ten they should be required to do so regularly.


Children need to develop skills and to be creative and inventive. They should be trained from an early age to take on responsibilities, to organise and take initiative rather than be timid and submissive. They should be able to spend their time usefully and profitably.

They need to develop skills that would fit them for contemporary living and for the particular society in which they live. This may involve anything – from the skills of running an efficient and creative home to the skills that would enable them to earn a living and help them in the process of tarbiyyah when their turn comes. Give a person a fish and you feed just one person; teach a person to fish and he can feed hundreds, says an apt Chinese proverb.



Above all, correct tarbiyyah should ensure that children develop a love for Islam, a love for Allah and His Prophet (salAllahu alayhi wasalam) and that they develop a feeling of pride in being Muslim and a willingness to strive for the good of others.

They need to realise the benefits of Islam, the foundations on which it is based and their need for Islam. They need to value Islam and live by Islamic values.




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**JP** Fw: Five Ways to Boost Your Child's Self-Esteem

Child's Self-Esteem



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Five Ways to Boost Your Child's Self-Esteem

By Terri Mauro, About.com Guide

 
 

1. Say more positive things to your child each day than negative ones.

It's easy to get caught up in criticism and correction, but if all your kid hears about is what he's doing wrong, he might begin to believe he can never do anything right. Give as much emotion, energy and attention to the good or just not-bad things your child does as to the bad ones. If necessary, set up situations specifically to give yourself an excuse to praise your child. Frequent smiles and hugs can go a long way, too.

2. Find something your child loves to do.

You're always going to have to spend a certain amount of time pushing him or her to do things that are hard and frustrating and discouraging, but everyone needs to spend some time doing things that are fun and fulfilling and empowering, too. If your child has a hobby or a special interest, encourage that (without taking over entirely). Even if all they like to do is listen to music or watch TV, you can discuss their likes and dislikes and give kids a chance to "show off" their knowledge.

3. Give your child responsibilities.

This can be hard to do for children with special needs, who may not be able to follow through on normal chores. But with a little imagination, you can find small but important jobs from which your child can get a sense of contributing to the family without risking failure or blame. It can be as simple as putting a clean trash bag in an empty can, bringing the newspaper inside, making sure lights are turned off, or sorting recyclables. Having a "job" of any sort is a self-esteem booster.

4. Consider school placement carefully.

Many parents worry that being in special education, especially in a self-contained class, will damage their child's self-esteem. But being in a class that is too challenging, or one in which the child perceives herself as the stupidest student, can be damaging as well. Listen to your child when he talks about how school feels, and be ready to do what's needed to find the right fit. Most of all, be sure you aren't determining placement based on your self-esteem, not your child's.

5. Spend time with your child

Whether you play games, take walks, have long bedtime chats, or just snuggle in front of the TV, spending time with your kids shows them that you value their company. If you give the better part of your attention to work or personal interests -- even to learning about your child's disability or being an advocate -- your child may feel that he or she is not important or deserving of your time. A little time and attention from a parent can pay off big ... even if kids act like they don't care.
 
 
*** I came across this page as I was browsing the internet for related topics and found it rather interesting. I thought it would be very useful to share with the rest of our FM members, especially those that may have children, nieces, nephews, etc. Even though it was available online, I thought by highlighting it this way for our members, it would be easier for them to open up and just read about it. I really found point #5 to be the most valuable and the most important point amongst all of them, especially with the way things are going on nowadays. It is very very important to invest time in our childrens' lives because the efforts will really pay off in the longrun. ***
 
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