No one can cause me to think more or less of myself... only I can do that.
Self worth can only be erased by the individual him/her self.
--
Mark M. Kahle H.
-- On Fri, Oct 1, 2010 at 3:32 PM, Tommy News <tommysnews@gmail.com> wrote:
That is quite false.I disagree with you.These six impressionable youths who have killed themselves became depressed, and did so largely because their sense of self worth was erased by homophobic taunts and threats from intolerant bullies. They likely experienced intense emotional pain brought on by verbal, physical, homophobic abuse and bullying.You need a lesson in depression and suicide.I suggest this:On 10/1/10, Mark <markmkahle@gmail.com> wrote:"repercussions such as gay bashing and extreme prejudice can be one cause of suicide. It makes one's sense of self worth diminish,"No one can make a persons sense of self worth dimenish !!!! It is something that is "allowed" to happen by the target of such attacks because of some basic weakness; whether it is self doubt, self reproaching or lack of belief that your own actions are correct.Again, you address the symptoms of personal problems and try to mandate away prejudices because a certain individual is not comfortable enough with themselves to simply shrug it off.
On Fri, Oct 1, 2010 at 2:52 PM, Tommy News <tommysnews@gmail.com> wrote:
I do not have time for this now.Negativity is hurtful, and the fear of negativity and repercussions such as gay bashing and extreme prejudice can be one cause of suicide. It makes one's sense of self worth diminish,
and some go into such a state of despondence and despair that they take their own lives.Making a joke of this, as Dick and Gnat did, is unforgivable and offensive.On 10/1/10, Mark <markmkahle@gmail.com> wrote:Again with the "snarky" !! Why is my English better than yours ??
Further you avoided answering my questions.... Or have you no answers ?--
On Fri, Oct 1, 2010 at 2:36 PM, Tommy News <tommysnews@gmail.com> wrote:
It was a reaction, which Dick deserved to his hateful offensive and snarky comment.
On 10/1/10, Mark <markmkahle@gmail.com> wrote:And now you have made it twice.
Is "Snarky Dick" a Gay term ?? Or do you simply mean a short tempered prick and are unable to free yourself from the vernacular ?
On Fri, Oct 1, 2010 at 2:27 PM, Tommy News <tommysnews@gmail.com> wrote:
Dick is a snarky dick.
On 10/1/10, dick thompson <rhomp2002@earthlink.net> wrote:Tommy, Tommy, Tommy, I think you just made Mark's point for him.
On 10/01/2010 04:08 PM, Tommy News wrote:Ignorant homophobes like you cause these suicides.Tommy --
On 10/1/10, Mark <markmkahle@gmail.com> wrote:No Tommy, it is not. The urge to destroy oneself is as ancient as life itself. There are so very many reasons people do this to themselves, both real and unreal reasons. There is however ONE reason ALL suicides do this.... they are too weak to cope and that, Sir, is a personal problem. It is NOT societal, and NOT something that can be legislated that causes me to lose the freedom to ask if someone is Gay or Lesbian (for whatever reason) or to call someone a flaming Queen if they are acting like one.
On Fri, Oct 1, 2010 at 1:05 PM, Tommy News <tommysnews@gmail.com> wrote:
Markie, Markie, Markie.Your ugly negativity and snarky spin is most perverse.One suicide is one too many.
No man is an island
No man is an island entire of itself; every man
is a piece of the continent, a part of the main;
if a clod be washed away by the sea, Europe
is the less, as well as if a promontory were, as
well as any manner of thy friends or of thine
own were; any man's death diminishes me,
because I am involved in mankind.
And therefore never send to know for whom
the bell tolls; it tolls for thee.
-John Donne
On 10/1/10, Mark <markmkahle@gmail.com> wrote:--Tommy, Tommy, Tommy,
He must have had a really poor self image... short of that nothing could "Make" him commit suicide. Suicide IS against the law, isn't it ??
So you are basically saying "Mommy, Mommy, he made me do it !!"
Not much of a defense when prejudice of one kind or another exists in EVERY walk of life.
On Fri, Oct 1, 2010 at 10:33 AM, Tommy News <tommysnews@gmail.com> wrote:
This is not one isolated incident. The problem of homophobia is societal and must be eradicated.This week , I heard about 3 – THREE – other young gay men murdered by homophobia in America.
http://abcnews.go.com/US/victim-secret-dorm-sex-tape-commits-suicide/story?id=11758716
--On 10/1/10, nominal9 <nominal9@yahoo.com> wrote:I think the issue here is that someone shot and distributed the images
against the suicide victim's will....
Plus, the victim was relatively young... eighteen....Gay or not....
that's a lot for a young person to handle.....
nominal9
On Oct 1, 12:09 pm, Mark <markmka...@gmail.com> wrote:
> *Just exactly what was he ashamed of ??? Being gay ?? How do you know ??
> He's certainly not talking.*
> *
> *
> *Further, if one is going to do or be involved in something that they find
> THAT shameful maybe they should rethink their own position first rather than
> legislate an entire populace for a personal error.*
>
>
>
>
>
> On Fri, Oct 1, 2010 at 9:50 AM, Tommy News <tommysn...@gmail.com> wrote:
> > *Your twisted pretzel logic is, as usual, illogical.*
> > **
> > *This talented young man would still be alive if it were not for the
> > horrible shame he felt after this secret video was posted on the internet by
> > his straight roomate.*
>
> > On 10/1/10, dick thompson <rhomp2...@earthlink.net> wrote:
>
> >> I guess every time a gay guy comits suicide it is always a societal
> >> homophobia, never anything else. And every time anyone kids a gay guy then
> >> it is homophobia, never anything else. The people who filmed him should
> >> pay for this big time but your thoughts on exactly why he took his own life
> >> are open to question. People do things for reasons other than homophobia,
> >> you know. The world does not revolve for the reasons you think it does and
> >> the world does not sit there waiting for Tommy News do determine if it was
> >> homophobia or not. You seem to think that if a gay guy does not get a job
> >> he applied for it has to be because of homophobia, not that someone better
> >> applied also.
>
> >> On 10/01/2010 11:19 AM, Tommy News wrote:
>
> >> *Do you think Tyler Clementi would have taken his own life if he had
> >> been filmed in a private romantic encounter with a girl?*
> >> *Think about why he took his life, why he did it. *
> >> * In addition, Think about why his straight roommate secretly filmed the
> >> encounter and broadcast it on the Internet.
> >> *
> >> *The problem is societal homophobia, which causes deep shame, ridicule,
> >> harm, and persecution of gays.*
>
> >> *Think, I know you can!*
>
> >> On 10/1/10, THE ANNOINTED ONE <markmka...@gmail.com> wrote:
>
> >>> Tommy,
>
> >>> One may first want to ask exactly what was so embarrassing and
> >>> repugnant on the tape that the young man was willing to take his own
> >>> life and why it was so to him.
>
> >>> That which made him jump came from within his own mind.
>
> >>> Since when is it governments job to legislate fortitude and love of
> >>> ones self ???
>
> >>> On Sep 30, 6:23 pm, Tommy News <tommysn...@gmail.com> wrote:
> >>> > *Take Action: Send A No More Suicides Letter to President Obama and
> >>> Congress
> >>> > *
> >>> > *Tell them to introduce and pass The American Equality Bill, to amend
> >>> the
> >>> > Civil Rights Act of 1964 to include sexual orientation and gender
> >>> identity.*
> >>> > **
> >>> > <
> >>>http://parenting.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/09/30/suicide-and-the-internet/>
> >>> > Tyler Clementi Jumped off the George Washington Bridge in New York
> >>> after his
> >>> > same-sex romantic encounter was secretly filmed and posted on the
> >>> internet
> >>> > by his college roomate. At least three other youths have killed
> >>> themselves
> >>> > due to homophobic bullying. Stop The Hate!
>
> >>> > From our friend Tif:
>
> >>> > -- THE LETTER BELOW WAS WRITTEN by Jonathan W, of Brooklyn, NY and
> >>> really
> >>> > captures the heart of the matter it seems.
>
> >>> > Please SEND IT as a comment to the White House at:
>
> >>> >http://www.whitehouse.gov/contact
> >>> > ...
> >>> > And LET THEM HEAR US SAY:
>
> >>> > *** Mr. President PLEASE SPEAK OUT LOUDLY about homophobia, school
> >>> bullying
> >>> > and equal civil rights for LGBTQ people -- no more suicide letters. ***
>
> >>> > To President Obama,
> >>> > All of us are horrified by the tragedy of Tyler Clementi, the young man
> >>> who
> >>> > committed suicide after his sexual encounter with another man was
> >>> posted on
> >>> > the internet. We share anger and disgust at the 2 students accused of
> >>> this
> >>> > despicable act. But if our outrage stops there, we will be doing a
> >>> grave
> >>> > disservice to the millions of young gay men and women in this country
> >>> who
> >>> > live with shame and fear everyday and who have a 4 times greater risk
> >>> of
> >>> > suicide than their straight counterparts.
> >>> > Most people would be embarrassed and angered at having their private
> >>> sexual
> >>> > acts secretly recorded and posted on the internet, but it seems
> >>> unlikely
> >>> > that Mr. Clementi would have been driven to suicide if this had been a
> >>> > heterosexual encounter. A young heterosexual man would not likely
> >>> experience
> >>> > the shame and fear that Mr. Clementi must have felt.
> >>> > Yes, the 2 students accused of this crime must be held accountable for
> >>> their
> >>> > actions, but as a society we must all share responsibility for creating
> >>> an
> >>> > environment that drives young gay people to suicide. This country has
> >>> come a
> >>> > long way toward acceptance of gay people in the last few decades, but
> >>> we
> >>> > still have a long way to go. Young gay people still face bullying and
> >>> abuse
> >>> > at home and at school; many experience ostracism by family and friends;
> >>> > discrimination in school, work, housing and social services; and
> >>> isolation
> >>> > from supportive communities of peers, as well as anti-gay violence in
> >>> public
> >>> > and private. It's no wonder that the shame and fear of 'coming out' can
> >>> be
> >>> > fatal.
> >>> > In the cyber world we now live in, there will undoubtedly be more cases
> >>> of
> >>> > invasions of privacy on the internet. They can be punished, but not
> >>> > prevented. It is up to all of us in this society to make sure that
> >>> young gay
> >>> > people feel safe, secure and accepted, so that shame and fear never
> >>> again
> >>> > result in death.
>
> >>> > Sincerely,
>
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