Monday, October 18, 2010

Attacks Awaken Gays’ Fears in the Bronx

Openly Gay in the Bronx, but Constantly on Guard
By SAM DOLNICK
Published: October 15, 2010
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CloseLinkedinDiggMixxMySpaceYahoo! BuzzPermalink Keith Mitchell, a
24-year-old who likes to be called Sparkles, strolled down East
Tremont Avenue in the Bronx, discussing what he would wear on a date
that night. As he rounded a corner, a stocky man with baggy pants and
arms covered in tattoos locked eyes on him.

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Béatrice de Géa for The New York Times
Keith Mitchell, 24, who has lived his life as an openly gay man in the
Bronx, says that since the attacks he is more cautious.

Related
Big City: When the Tormentors Live Just Outside Your Front Door
(October 16, 2010)
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Béatrice de Géa for The New York Times
The torture of three men suspected of being gay by a local gang has
shaken residents of the Bronx.
The news had been filled with details of the vicious antigay attacks
two weeks earlier and just two miles to the west, but Mr. Mitchell,
breezy as ever, did not notice the stare until the tattooed man called
out.

"What's up, mama?" the man asked with a smile. "How you been?"

In West Farms, the neighborhood where Mr. Mitchell lives, nearly
everyone — the bodega cashiers, the basketball players, even the gang
members — knows he is gay, and he has rarely felt threatened.

Yet the torture of three men thought to be gay has shaken him, as it
has people across the city, and especially in the Bronx, the borough
with the city's highest rates of poverty and some of its most violent
crime.

In the toughest neighborhoods, gay residents say, it is possible to
live openly much of the time — and then to suddenly pay for it.

"There is a constant threat of violence that we live with," said
Charles Rice-Gonzalez, 46, a writer and gay rights advocate who has
been working in the South Bronx for two decades. "I was horrified,
disgusted and angered by the attacks. I wouldn't say I was surprised
or shocked."

In the week since the police announced the first arrests of several
gang members in the assaults, Mr. Rice-Gonzalez and Arthur Aviles,
co-founders of the Bronx Academy of Arts and Dance, have begun
planning a self-defense class at their theater in Hunts Point. David
Matthews, 43, another gay rights advocate who works in the South
Bronx, said he was looking over his shoulder with a new vigilance.

And Mr. Mitchell, who said he can be himself in his neighborhood
because people there watched him grow up, is taking care when straying
beyond its borders. He has been beaten up before, he said, and the
recent attacks are never far from his mind. "That could have been me,"
he said. "You never know when someone is going to turn on you."

In many respects, gay people in the lowest-income neighborhoods face
the same challenges and threats as other gay New Yorkers.

The Department of Education reported 862 incidents of harassment based
on sexual orientation in the 2008-9 school year. More than 40 percent
of the 1,700 homeless youths in the Safe Horizon Streetwork Project, a
citywide victims' assistance program, identify themselves as gay or
transgender.

But in dozens of interviews this week, gay and lesbian residents said
it could be especially difficult to be gay in the Bronx, given the
macho culture of the street, the local gang codes and the storefront
churches that call homosexuality a sin.

"If I walk around wearing tight jeans and looking non-hood, I feel the
tension," said Ruben Porras, 29, who grew up in Morris Heights, where
the attacks occurred. "If I'm walking by some Bloods, I'll walk
tougher.

"But if I'm in Chelsea," he said with a laugh, "I'll act very differently."

If the Bronx has no Chelsea, a Manhattan neighborhood that wears its
gay identity proudly, it does have its public gay life. Some bars
sponsor gay nights — Tuesdays at Mi Gente Café on Unionport Road are
popular — but the scene is scattered, without the security that an
enclave like Chelsea or the West Village provides.

"It's loose and it's not centralized, but there is a gay community in
the Bronx," said Mr. Rice-Gonzalez, whose theater acts as something of
a clearinghouse for gay culture in the borough.

When Mr. Rice-Gonzalez was growing up in the Soundview neighborhood in
the 1970s and '80s, there were few gay organizations, making for "a
very clear sense of isolation," he said.

"There wasn't a queer voice in the Bronx," Mr. Rice-Gonzalez said.
"There was no way for gay men to meet each other unless you ran into
someone downtown."

Today, several groups offer services and counseling to gay people,
including the Bronx Community Pride Center, Bronx AIDS Services and
the Hispanic AIDS Forum. Harassment and even violence against gays are
not uncommon, but the Oct. 3 attacks in Morris Heights have struck a
nerve because of their brutality and extent — 11 suspects; 4 victims,
including the brother of one of the men who were tortured; and a
20-hour rampage involving cigarette burns, sodomy and beatings with
baseball bats.

Mr. Porras, who said he knew some of the men arrested, offered an
explanation of the attacks informed by life on those same streets. He
said the men, who belonged to the Latin King Goonies, a subset of the
Latin Kings, were not overtly hostile to gays. He compared the gang to
a father who tolerated gay people — as long as they were not in his
family.

"People will embrace it so long as it's not someone they are claiming
as their own," he said.

The trouble began, the authorities said, after one gang member saw a
30-year-old man, who was suspected of being gay, with a 17-year-old
who wanted to join the group. Gang members assumed the men had slept
together; they punished them, another teenager and the older man's
brother.

Related
Big City: When the Tormentors Live Just Outside Your Front Door
(October 16, 2010) Morris Heights is a tight-knit community where
neighbors know one another by nicknames. Old men stand in bodegas
discussing the day's headlines. On a recent afternoon, young men on
Burnside Avenue argued about the price a chop shop would pay for a
Toyota.

A 29-year-old mother stood outside a bodega, two blocks from the house
where the attacks occurred, reading newspaper accounts of the arrests.
She said she was horrified by the violence, but she acknowledged that
gay people, including a man in her building, made her uncomfortable.

"It's hard for me to handle," said the woman, who declined to give her
name for fear of gang reprisals. "It's something that's not normal in
a household."

Yet her feelings about homosexuality are conflicted, which gay
advocates say is not unusual. "I watch a lot of gay porn," she said.
"It's very intriguing to me. Why are they so interested? What pleasure
do they get?"

In neighborhoods where gangs are common, some churches offer a message
of tolerance. But several gay residents said a growing number of
congregations made them feel attacked from two sides.

"I feel assaulted every weekend because of the hate speech from
sidewalk preachers," Mr. Rice-Gonzalez said. "They say gay people need
to repent, they're going to hell."

State Senator Rubén Díaz Sr., a Pentecostal minister who represents
the South Bronx, is a vocal opponent of gay marriage. Many gay leaders
noted that the statement he released condemning the recent attacks
made no mention of homosexuality.

In an interview, Mr. Díaz, a Democrat, said: "I don't support violence
against anybody. I would ask for the maximum penalty to anyone that
abuses another human being." But he added, "I'm against gay marriage,
and I always will be."

New York has long been a refuge for gay people. But many have been
dismayed by an assault this month on a gay man at the landmark
Stonewall Inn in Greenwich Village, followed by the Bronx attacks and
remarks this week by the Republican nominee for governor, Carl P.
Paladino, who said gay pride parades were "disgusting."

"If this is the oasis in our country," Eliza Byard, executive director
of the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network, said, "it doesn't
feel that great right now."

More: http://www.nytimes.com/2010/10/16/nyregion/16gays.html?pagewanted=2&ref=nyregion&src=me


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